Morning of Surgery...

We had to be at the hospital this morning at 5:30, so that made for an early morning at the Porterhouse!!  We made it in on time and waited to be sent upstairs.

Then we headed upstairs and got suited up. 

He even got a little time in for someDisney junior and DS. 

We then got to ride the bed on the elevator. 

We also met with the surgeon before they took our sweet boy back. We are currently about 2 and a half hours in to the surgery.  Thank you so much for all of your prayers. 

'twas the night before Surgery...

Last night we let Caden choose anything he wanted for dinner last night, so we headed to Applebee's. 

He was about halfway through dinner when he decided that we would also need a little dessert, so we headed over to Bop's for some ice cream and a cookie. 

 

Then we dropped Grayson at my parents house and headed home for the night. 

I made sure to get a pre-incision picture of his chest. 
 

And then he wanted to "pose."

He finally got to sleep, and my oh my, the morning came entirely too soon!!  :)
 
 

Pre-Op Day...

Let me begin by saying that we had a WONDERFUL experience today at Batson!  Everyone was just fabulous...we felt very very taken care of.  Both Frank and I fully expected to come away from today with more anxiety about Monday because we would know more of the details.  However, we both feel much more comfortable about the upcoming week after today's appointments.  What an answer to prayer...we serve a MIGHTY God who hears the prayers of His people!
Caden woke up this morning and immediately noticed that he was late for his usual school wake up time.  So I explained to him that we would not be going to school today.  Instead we would be going to see a new heart doctor.  I told him that this doctor and Dr. Braden thought that now is the time to do some more repair work on his heart.  He seemed totally fine with it!!  HUGE prayer answered there!  I told him that we would be hearing all about the surgery and that he could feel free to ask any of the doctors or nurses whatever questions he had.  He seemed happy with that.
We dropped Grayson off at my parents house, and we headed to the hospital.  We were warned that this appointment would take some time, and they weren't kidding.  We saw lots and lots of people, but it all went very quickly.  We first headed up to the clinics and had the dreaded blood work done...this was the only time that tears were shed.  The nurses were great because they told him what a good job he did during the needle part, and they let him pic some prizes from the toy room.

God love him...he was so excited about that red harmonica!!  What a love!  Then they sent us on a short scavenger hunt for a chest xray (didn't get a pic there...felt like I was creeping out  the techs.  ha!) and an EKG.

Back up to the waiting room to watch a little Disney Junior before we were called back again.

We headed back in the clinic after that, and they decided that we should go ahead and have another echo so that the hospital could have one on file that was performed "in house."  Caden has had tons of these done before, so it was no biggie!

When we got back to our room, he was getting a little hungry, so he decided to have some skittles out of my bag.  He thought it was awesome that I packed his lunch box with snacks...it truly is the little things!

Then we met with the 2 nurse managers who answered lots of questions about where to be and what to do on Monday.  We didn't get to meet the surgeon (he had to go out of town unexpectedly), but we did meet with his nurse practitioner who was just fabulous!  He went into detail about the surgery itself, the recovery, and everything in between.  Amazingly, Caden never got panicked about any of it.  He was quite happy to find out that his puppy gets to go into surgery with him and will come out of surgery with a bandage just like his.  It means a lot to this mama for little things like that to be considered!
When we had finished all of our appointments in the clinic, we went up to the pre-op floor and were seen by one of the pediatric dentists to get dental clearance for surgery.   This took MAYBE 30 seconds...ha!  Then we waited to be seen by anesthesia.

Once we were done there, it was out to lunch!!  We were there for a little over 4 hours, so Caden was ready to G-O!

 We are still on schedule for surgery first thing Monday morning.  We are to be at the hospital at 5:30...good times!  The surgery may last anywhere from 5-10 hours.  It all depends on what procedure they decide to do once they get in there.  First they will try and repair his existing valve.  Once they have tried this, they will run tests and see if it is giving them the kind of results they want.  If they are not happy with how the repair goes, they will go ahead with a valve replacement.  Even with the replacement, they still have some procedural decisions to make.  They can either go with a straight forward aortic valve replacement by tissue valve, or they may choose to go with a Ross Procedure.  Please be in prayer for the decisions the surgeons will be making Monday once they get in to see what they think is best for Caden's heart.  They all have their benefits and risks, so there is really no bad choice!  Praise the Lord for modern medicine!!  I'm still just always amazed at the things they can do.  Caden will go from surgery to the PICU where he will stay for 24-48 hours.  He will then move to the surgical step down unit where he will stay for a few nights.  All in all we should be in the hospital for 5-7 days just depending on how things go.
Thank you all for the prayers that you have offered so far...we can truly feel God's peace wrapped around us!!   Please keep on praying as we go into surgery Monday and for the recovery to follow. We deeply appreciate each one of you!!!

Pre-Op Eve...

This day has seemed so far off for so long, but now it is upon us.  Tomorrow is the day that we go for Caden's pre-op appointment.  But more importantly, it's the day we tell Caden about his upcoming surgery.  We have waited until the last possible moment to share this with Caden on purpose.  He is such a tender little one that we wanted to guard him from it as long as we could.  We will share the news with him in the morning before we go in for his appointment.  Please pray that his nerves would not get the best of him.  Bless his precious self, he is a bit of a worrier, so we pray that will be minimal!
As of right now the plan is to go ahead with open heart surgery to replace his aortic valve on Monday, April 8.  We will know more after our appointment tomorrow, so I will be sure to update. 
As always, your prayers are GREATLY appreciated as we walk this road with our sweet Caden.  We serve a Mighty God, and we rest in the knowledge that Caden is in His care and protection!
Joshua 1:9

We really are still here...

I have to laugh when I look at those babies in the header pic on this page.  That pic is nearly 5 years old, but I just can't bring myself to change those baby faces! (Maybe I'll work up the courage one day soon!)
I wanted to go ahead and get back into blogging because the Porter House has some big things on the horizon, and I thought this would be a great way to keep everyone posted.
First things first, here's a pic that's not 5 years old...ha!

 

 See...we're still around!  That pic was taken after Caden's first grade play right before Christmas.  

Things have certainly been changing around for us.  Frank is no longer a youth minister.  He left youth ministry (we just felt the time was right) in December of 2010.  In January 2011, he left for 3 months to attend Chaplain School (CHBOLC) at Ft. Jackson in South Carolina. 

When he came home, he went to work for the National Guard full time for almost a year and a half in a couple of different capacities.  Then in June of 2012, he was asked to fill in for a church in Carthage.  We went to Pleasant Grove Church on Father's Day of 2012, and we haven't left!  Frank started as their full time pastor in October.  We simply couldn't be happier with where God has placed us.  We absolutely LOVE our church family!

In other news, we are gearing up for Caden's next heart procedure.  He had a valvuloplasty done in the Cath lab when he was 5 months old.  He's been doing fine ever since, but we knew we were just "buying time" until his first valve replacement.  Well, the time is upon us.  We are currently just waiting for the surgeon to schedule the surgery.  I will do my best to keep everything updated here.  :)  We haven't told C about the surgery.  He has such a sweet spirit, I don't want him to worry about what is before him.  Because of this, we are guarding him from this as long as we can.  Thankfully we now have a FABULOUS pediatric heart surgeon who specializes in congenital heart defects at our hospital in Jackson.  Another way God puts even the smallest pieces together:  our pediatric cardiologist (whom we LOVE!)  now practices in Jackson instead of Brookhaven.  It really is the little things that bring peace!

The Fair…

After Community Helper day, we picked up C from school and headed to the Fair.  The boys look forward to it every year.  My parents met us there for an afternoon of fun.  Paul and Anna stopped in for lunch as well.

It is so nice that the boys are both tall enough to ride most of the kiddie rides without an adult…it certainly allows us to stay at the fair longer!!  Ha!

I did end up having to ride one “roller coaster” because Grayson wanted to go while Caden was on something else with Honey and Papa…UGH!!!  Rides just aren’t as fun as they used to be…especially those which are constructed in a day or two.

It was rather sunny out, so Caden took Papa’s hat from him. 

Here come Caden down the giant slide…

Thank GOODNESS my wonderful husband agreed to go down the slide with Grayson!!

We went to the petting zoo right after this, but I forgot to take pics.  Oops!

I think that this ride was the “nail in the coffin” for Grayson.  He ended up being sick that night, and I think that this ride had a LOT to do with it.  I think he takes after his daddy and Papa in that he doesn’t do too well on rides that spin in circles.  Oh well!

A final ride on the elephants, and we were done with riding.

Grayson did sweet talk his way into an airbrushed T-shirt with Thomas the train…oh yes we did!  Of course, we let Caden get one too, and he chose an Angry Birds one.  It was a day filled with lots of fun!!

Community Helper Day…

G’s preschool had a community helper day complete with a parade and visit from the Fire Department.  All of the kiddos came dressed as their favorite community helper, and they were precious!!

Then here come’s G’s little class…

We cracked up because when G saw us, he immediately started posing for the camera…

After the parade, they took a little break while we waited for the fire truck to arrive…

When the fire truck arrived, the kids got to take turns spraying the hose…

They also got to explore the fire truck…it was a fun fun morning!!!  We LOVE our preschool!!!